 | When was the last time your lady said to you, in the aftermath of a particularly intense round of love making, “you really know how to move your ass”? If the answer is never, then this article is for you. If the answer is: not in a very long time, this article can help you get the motion back in your ocean. And even if your answer is: every night of my life, you’ll still want to check your bag of tricks Mr. Super-Stud, just to be certain you’ve got these essential techniques mastered.
More than just a matter of instinct... The subject at hand is pelvic thrusting of course, the precursor and prerequisite discussion for further study as it relates to every penetrative type of sex in the book. And while you may be thinking, and rightly so, that pelvic thrusting is an instinctive behavior, which comes “naturally” to all mammals, and is even demonstrated by infants as they begin to discover their sexual responses. What is most important to point out is that, instinctual as this behavior may be, it can be dramatically improved upon by skilled and experienced lovers.
Our travels at myhardwer.com bring us into contact with many different men, of different races, who cross a spectrum of ages and endowments. What’s most surprising to us, is how many guys really don’t know how to move their asses in bed.
In specific we find that many men don’t know how to work their pelvises with the degree of variety and skill required to accomplish maximum surface stimulation within the vagina, and so they tend to generate monotonous piston-like movements that tire them quickly while boring their partners. They don’t know how to hit those special spots that transform monotonous sex into momentous sex. This, of course, is our cue; one of many instances where we can lend our expertise and assistance for the betterment of mankind (at the very least man’s sexual experience).
A penis moving in and out of a vagina is sex, but by no means great sex. The aim of great lovers is not just to get the job done, but to explore (and in that exploration get the job done right). Your aim should be to work every surface of the vagina (certain spots: the G-spot, and A-spot, are of particular interest, but these are advanced topics that can’t even be addressed until you’ve gone beyond the basics of instinctual thrusting and learned to really move your ass in bed).
So what’s the formula? There are four pelvic thrusting styles available to every man, and every man should be familiar with them all, and use them all. If you can roll it, tilt it, work it like a piston, and flex it when you need to (all four styles on command and with just a little rhythm and flow), you’ll have no trouble at all keeping her calling out for more.
Moving your ass in bed: The Manual (AKA the four primary thrusting techniques) To some guys all four movements come quite naturally. We surmise that to some extent this is a rhythm-thing, and just as some men have a knack for dancing, many more do not. We film monthly product trials with couples, and we can assure you that more often than not, when asked to roll their pelvis or hips (this is probably the hardest of the four movements), most guys do not know how and\or can not do so with ease. |
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 | | This complex circular thrusting style stimulates the sides and center of her vagina as you enter and exit. |
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 | | As with most sex techniques, masturbation can (and should) be a valuable proving ground for your new thrusting styles. If you're still jacking it like a tenth-grader with a goal of getting-off as quickly as possible, you’re missing a major opportunity to improve your bedroom skills... Watch Evander's video demo of the 4 styles in masturbation, practice on your own, and then master the moves during the main event. |
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 | The Pelvic "Roll" If when you are entering and exiting the *vagina you are able to stabilize your upper body and move your pelvis (and buttocks and hips) with a degree of singularity, if you can roll your hips and buttocks so that the movement grinds the sides of your penis against the inner-sides of the *vagina while moving in and out (envision yourself keeping a hula-hoop in motion without moving your upper body), this advanced movement is pelvic rolling.
Illustrated on the left, it should not be difficult to visualize how this “rolling” motion would obviously stimulate a greater tactile response inside the vagina, producing more friction for you and your lover, than a direct in and out motion. This style recruits the hips, abdominal muscles and lower back muscles; because it focuses the motion into the pelvis, the pelvic "roll" is generally less taxing than “piston” type movements, which can and usually do recruit muscles from nearly every part of the anatomy.
The Pelvic "Tilt" If when you are entering and exiting the *vagina you are able to stabilize your upper body and move your pelvis chiefly by way of spinal manipulation, in which the lower back arches as the buttocks pops back (loading the thrust), and then the lower back rounds as the buttocks launches forward (firing the thrust), this advanced movement is pelvic tilting. Using this approach you should be able to favor the top and\or underside of your penis, so that your engorged member grinds the inner-top and\or bottom surfaces of the vagina upon entry and exit.
Like “rolling” your pelvis, "tilting" recruits the hips, abdominal muscles and lower back muscles; but is even lower impact, and most men find it easier to execute. The "tilt" when applied at varying heights of entry, can be very precise when compared with other styles, and is particulary handy for bumping those hard to reach spots (The G-spot, A-spot, etc). |  |
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