Sexual Kata 101 - In-depth Male\Top Stances
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 | | The word kata comes from the Japanese meaning formal exercise. In Asian culture kata is not only something practiced in the martial arts, but rather Kata has a deep and spiritual meaning and is performed in almost every aspect of life. There is a kata (or formal form) for a tea ceremony and also for entering a room or greeting a friend. |
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| Like martial arts, sex is also a discipline of the mind and body. And just as katas have been used for centuries to transfer knowledge and secrets of the body’s most effective forms for war, we can also use kata to communicate and train ourselves in the body’s most effective forms for love-making. |
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| A Sexual Kata is a series of movements and\or techniques that are practiced in a pattern. The blackbelt principals teach us that the combination of Stance (the position our body assumes to perform a specific sexual technique, Pelvic Thrusting Style (the way in which our pelvis will move or be moved to accomplish sexual motion), and for advanced students… also the speed of the thrusts, unite to form the Basic Sexual Katas. Complex Sexual Katas (which will be the topic of a future article) are strings of interconnected Basic Sexual Katas that train for advanced transitions.
Each Sexual Kata is designed to teach a central principle, that can then be applied in any combination during an actual round of lovemaking.
Below are the Sexaul Katas taught at bedroomblackbelt.com: |
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 | It’s my understanding (and maybe it’s just from old kung-fu movies) that Shaolin monks take a vow of celibacy, hopefully this is untrue, as with what these boys can do with their bodies a girl could have endless hours of fun.
Seriously though this is an awesome article that gets guys in synch with all the basic forms of sex, the ones that every guy does, but can't necessarily summon skillfully, and the more exotic ones they’ve never even thought about.
I’ll be here every step of the way to let you know how we ladies respond to these katas when their pulled together during real sex. So with Lance’s fantastic sexxxtrainer demonstrations and male perspective, along with my female perspective you can’t go wrong.
AND LADIES, DON’T THINK WE FORGOT ABOUT YOU, while these katas are focused on the boy’s role during sex, I’m working with our editors on the softer side of Sexual Kata’s… coming soon. |  |
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 | I’m not a Shaolin monk, and I’m not planning to twist myself into any pretzel like positions, even though the stance the monk above has gotten himself into does look like one crazy posture to try and have sex in… I might try it one day. For today’s article, I’m going to focus on demonstrating the Basic Sexual Katas for you. If you don’t have a sexxxtrainer, you can follow along by grinding with a pillow or on your mattress, or using your hand. But I do strongly encourage you to get a sexxxtrainer, as there is simply no better tool for simulating and practicing real sex, and some of the katas will be difficult to do if you don’t have something to fuck hand’s free.
Yes, of course, you can practice these katas with your girlfriend... nothing beats a live sex partner... but many guys will want to practice these moves on their own and then dazzle their partners with new skills.
While you will probably never have thought about sex with a martial arts mentality, you will quickly see how effective our model for sexual training is. Below are the Basic Sexual Katas grouped by stance. So without farther delay we’ll get started, for while the Shaolin Monks may have taken a vow of celibacy… we have not. |  |
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| | The building blocks of sex are stances. Indeed, in every sex position, there are at least 2 stances: your stance and your partner’s stance. In group sex scenarios there will be a stance for every person involved. The union of your stance with those of your sexual partner(s) creates an expansive world of sex position possibilities. This on-going segment looks at the stances for male's in isolation and detail. |
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| | As with all true learning, it begins with ourselves and spreads out from there. It is extraordinarily beneficial to understand the full domain of body positions that you yourself can enter into during sex, and once you’ve mastered your stances you’ll possess the knowledge and confidence to encourage your partner(s) into countering your stances with daring stances of their own that together produce the most exciting sex you’ve ever had. |
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 | The Prone Stance AKA Virgin Stance is the stance that every guy figures out, it is of course the stance that is employed in the classic missionary or man-on-top position. It is comfortable, natural on a bed or other soft surface, and easy to transition into and out of. The prone stance does not offer the highest level of mobility in itself, while the “Pelvic Tilt” style thrusting shown here is natural to this stance, more complex thrusting styles such as the roll and combination thrusts are difficult for many men to execute in this posture.
The more up on your knees you are as this stance is performed (without being in a fully upright kneeling posture), the more basic it is. It’s very easy to pump your hips if your balance is on your knees in missionary sex, however it’s not terribly easy to pump your hips with any great rhythm or variety of thrusting style. The Virgin Stance version of prone has the male’s weight fully on his knees and this very natural posture is the most basic sexual stance that every guy knows. But beware many guys over use the Virgin Stance into staleness. See Joe's Losing Performance in the Low Entry Sexual Showdown to see the "Virgin Stance" used into staleness.
Easy and comfortable this stance, which is employed in a number of sex positions seen throughout this site, should be in every guy’s repertoire. |  |
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 | Tips for taking this Kata to the next level...
Tip 1: On a bed or sofa, The Prone Stance can be the glue that fits in-between more complex stances, whenever you get physically tired having been in a more complicated posture for a while, you can easily fall back into the prone stance.
Tip 2: “Dig in” for increased mobility. What do we mean? It’s easy, just dig your toes into the mattress if it’s possible; or plant the soles of your feet firmly against the headboard, footboard, or a wall; or hook your feet onto something like the frame of the bed if its reachable (on pullout couches where mattresses are thin, a guy can almost always find a way to hook his feet into the metal frame the mattress sits on). If you can dig in you’ll be able to control your pelvic thrusts in a much more dynamic way, you’ll also be able to really drive yourself home for much deeper thrusts.
Don’t be shy about dragging your partner across the bed so that you can get close enough to the edge, to a wall or headboard or footboard, in order to dig in. A) Your partner will find your aggressive manhandling to be deliciously take charge, you’ll be seen as a man who follows his animal instincts and knows his way around a bed, b) when you get to where you’re going, and get yourself dug in, the fireworks that follow will be well worth a little relocation on the mattress.
Tip 3: Look closely at the animation above. Of course the “Pelvic Tilt” is the major thrusting style, but notice at the end of thrust when Lance’s penis is fully inserted that he flexes his ass for an extra accent. This is the “Pelvic Flex” and it puts a nice punctuation on the end of or intermixed with other trusts. |  |
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Many more stances in the rest of the article! |
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